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"How do you be the best of lovers and the best of friends, too?" From this Sinatra song, I find the defining terms of an enduring relationship. There has to be fun and excitement, compassion, nurturing, a few good arguments that end well, shared interests, two whole parts that work and play together---sometimes you lead, sometimes I lead, and some magic and humor always present, ie true love. A partnership of equals bringing different and varied strengths together. If I keep doing this I am convinced I should be a self-help book author! So I hope to be with an attractive woman with a smile of warmth and fun, who is curious, happy with herself, artistic, romantic and pragmatic. I am athletic, communicative, sometimes insightful, incurably romantic (for a lawyer?), curious, lover of yoga and competitive tennis, a little too intellectual at times, love to dance, open to many things and experiences.
Upon reflection and after a few connections since my divorce in 2002 , my priorities are to share and value together , with some priority to 1&2 and of course 4 : 1. loving kindness; 2. integrity and truth, honesty, say what you mean and mean what you say, and actions talk louder than words, it must be behavioral; minimizing self dece