• Male
• 54 years old
• 6' 3" tall
• A few extra pounds
• Blonde hair - Blue eyes
• White / Caucasian
• Non-Smoker
• Labor / Construction (occupation)

• College (education)
• $35,001 to $50,000 (income)
• Looking for: Marriage, Serious Relationship, Casual Relationship, Friendship, Pen Pal
• Widowed
• Has 3 children
• Other (religion)
• Middle of the Road (political affiliation)
• pet: None

A little about me...
...I'm a 54yr. old widower worked hard all my life,easy going and love kids ( even my own ) I'm a Chunky-Husky guy---I work -out 1-2 times a week---free weights, and ab-lounge--do not have 6-pak abs, but still trying.And I'm No Muscle Man...I keep my self clean,and well groomed..I'm a great cook, and do so every day..crab cakes,shrimp scampi, pepperoni and crabmeat lasagna, minced sopressata and ricotta pie,green and black pompano olive salad ,(yes I am Italian / German Jew )and would like to prepare romantic dinners for the right women..)( don't worry I'll clean-up ) I also make homemade peach cobbler and roll my own dough.. And my Grandboys think I'm just Great...I have them convinced that I'm the one who invented putting cinnamon on pop-corn....sssshhhh !!.I am mature and responsible,but just can't seem to let go of that youngster excitement and "Drive In Movie window steaming sessions "..for those of us who remember Drive Ins..??, ..and.according to my sons..I'm Gay...my clothes are gay...my music is gay...movies and shows I watch are all gay.."Dad..thats sooo GAY."..and I guess going to the Philadelphia Flower Show, and listening to old David Cassidy and ABBA songs does not help my macho image any..

About the one I'm looking for...
...I'm looking for one steady girlfriend ( I know that sounds too old Fashioned...I just don't know how else to put it..) to go dining out, dancing to the Oldies,movies,flee-markets,Baseball Games...etc...and of course....romance , passion, and intimacy.... I do not, and will not listen to heavy metal, punk rocking,head slamming,snoop daddy,puff doggy, break dancing, stomp the yard, hippie,vampire rap music.I like .The Oldies, Mowtown, Stones,the Hollies,Bee Gees,Moody Blues,Beatles,Diana Ross,Frankie Valie., ..AND I HATE RAP CRAP...Im Strong, reasonably fit,virile, secure and confident...Not Co cky and Arrogant...but I think I may be turning into my ..Mother...I buy green bananas,clean everything with bleach, re-use paper towels, and started drinking cups of tea...Yikes...I also like playing Roman Gladiator, Tarzan, and D/S Games....and I think ladys who show a little Tomgirl side is just soo sexy, and girls who ride horses, and motorcycles make me go ..Gaga.........Dont tell my sons I said that...I'll have to hear how..Gay I am......please..If I send you a flirt, and you live no-wheres near me it's, because I think You are just too beautiful to ignore, and I just have to say so...No Offense...Please.....

I'd just like to add...
I told my wife I loved her the first night we met,and from that night on we were never apart( except of course-lengthy hospital stays) I was married to that girl for 22 years, and she was terminally ill for a great part of that-,believe me..it was no easy task and at times, seemingly , a nightmare, but loved her till she passed in my arms , and I have learned this..Love is Not that feeling you get when your with the person...True love is that feeling you get when your.. Not with them......And she taught me the 2 most important words that can save a young husband years of worry, anxiety and confusion..." Yes Dear "...and a day of cooking, cleaning, and dirty yard work with my woman...now that can be some real good foreplay.........I am an old fashioned romantic,and gentleman type..send cards, bring flowers,open doors,walk hand-in-hand,casual hugging, and kissing in public, snuggeling,cuddeling,and..I even like candles.Ladies..PLEASE..NO mo-jo chanting, crystal ball reading, bone ratteling, ghost hunting,sayance practicing,star gazing,voo-doo doll making, spell casting, bug eating,blood drinking, dead animal worshipping, spirit talking, bitter man hating,gothic,Celtic priestess, wicca vampire witches....