• Female
• 50 years old
• 5' 3" tall
• Big & Beautiful
• Light Brown hair - Brown eyes
• Middle Eastern
• Social Smoker
• Sales / Marketing (occupation)

• $25,001 to $35,000 (income)
• Looking for: Serious Relationship, Casual Relationship, Friendship
• Divorced
• Has 1 child
• Other (religion)
• pet: Cats
• Chicago, IL (where I grew up)

A little about me...
I keep thinking there are things I should put in or take about regarding my profile I mean there's nothing deep about it, my soul searching is kind of private and not fodder for this particular arena. I guess for me this little intro is a way to cover the basics you know basic do's and don't of what I'd care for a man to be in my own little reality.

Lol what makes me a good partner - oh hell i don't know. Loyal, honest, intelligent, quick wit, insanely sarcastic. On the outside I can appear to be tough, unyeilding and very serious however, like a Cadbury egg I have a gooey center & if you're smart enough, and clever enough and motivated enough once you hit that gooey center all bets are off and then my dear I have your back through thick and thicker.

Let me say I'm twice divorced - who's fault? Both of us. Mistakes were made and yes I am the type of person that learns from her mistakes so as to not repeat them. I have been known to be wrong and can admit it and oh yes even apologize.

Get in my head and the rest is easy.

About the one I'm looking for...
Another loaded question - what are all women looking for? A man who's honest, able to do his own laundry and clean - look Prince Charming is subjective but some charectistics will always remain the same. Faithful is a no brainer - to me it's necessary that you be man enough to call me on my sh*t when necessary. Remember I'm still female and well hey we're hormonal and can get snarky.

Please have a sense of humor, a job that allows you to live comfortably, friends, dig music and an understanding that people must spend time apart so they can bring something back into the relatioship - be tech savy - yes I do a bit of texting and sometimes its an easy way to communicate.

I don't care what you do for a living if you're happy in it that's all that matters

I'd just like to add...
I moved back to Chicago 2 years ago with everything I owned in the back of my car after leaving a husband that refused to stop his ongoing affair. Within 2 months I had a job and an apartment - I'm in the construction industry and can swear like a sailor, drink tequilla, cold dark beer on a hot summers day, i dig gardening, reading and sometimes doing nothing at all. Rainy days are best when you can stay in bed and well........you fill in the blanks. My persohal goals are to be more healthy, I'm a big girl and am not looking to be skinny just more healthy so yea I pay attention to how thngs affect my body and mood - I dig doing anything out doors and music, oh yea music very important almost as important as air