A little about me...
I'm here to communicate, and yes, to see pics too so write something real, don't just push a flirt button. My 5 matches the other day had 11 sentences total for all their profiles. Lame!! What's a relationship without communication? I've left here and returned. The chance that feminine needle can be found in this online haystack is the draw, yet the Matches I get are often far outside my parameters. Who's running this show? I live in an area of low steady population with high turnover and as I'm not a Type A, I probably don't put myself "Out There" very well. I don't seek attention or fortune, but a deeper, more thoughtful relationship. I'm more likely to be found watching a sunset or storm over the mountains, buffalo meander across a meadow, or walking under a beautiful moon than elbowing through a crowd, though I do enjoy good live music. A nice dinner, maybe a good beer or wine, or just coffee and discussion somewhere, but even if I had another foot, I'd still have 3 left feet...not a dancer. I fish a little, don't hunt. I shoot animals with a camera. When I look at profiles I see so many negligible ones. Few words, terrible pics. Why put out so little effort? Still learning, always curious, here for only a bit more I think.
About the one I'm looking for...
What attracts me? Intellect. Humor. Compassion. Curiosity. A wonder at the World, a care for the Environment. Chemistry is instinctual and crucial so visuals aside, taking the time to examine in depth a person's soul and mind that lies within the shell we wear can only help in finding a true Mate. like Art or Music, the heart loves what it loves, inexplicable or not, but don't be offended if the spark isn't there mutually. Life is funny that way. Do you read? Do you continue to educate yourself? Do you enjoy discussion? Philosophy? Watching a Rom/com together? Sharing a sunset or night sky? A picnic? I imagine I'm complicated, I suspect you are too. It's to be expected. How well we mesh, with our sometimes odd edges, is what its about. I won't date a smoker. I apologize for not dancing. Country music bores me mostly but some is okay. Are you a nurse? A teacher? A librarian? Quantum mechanic sans grease? Is what you do more important than how much you make? If you're here, you're no kid. Me either. A person is multi-faceted, so is attraction. Physical, mental, spiritual. Years from now I still want to love being with my mate, having a best friend to the end, yet recognize we all need space at times, with diverse interests to share.
I'd just like to add...
love rock, classical, jazz, blues. I know a Seurat from Monet, Sauvignon from Merlot, a quiche from a quark, & work with my hands. Type INTP. Animals are drawn to me, I'm great with kids, people think I'm funny. I'm certainly not the athlete I once was and I'd hate to bore you if you are still one. If you've read this far, I'm already impressed. I'm disappointed by the lack of imagination here... such formulaic profiles. Please, don't send a push button flirt... say something!!! Let's have a conversation. Speak your mind and show your wit! Let me see your eyes in your photos, and a smile that connects with them. Let me see the Spark instead of emptiness. Help me be unable to pass you by or incapable of not coming back to your profile. There are many here that have obviously had a tough time... the first things they say are No Players or Liars (as if one wouldn't lie about that?), no this or that, very negative stuff. I see photos of people hidden by gigantic sunglasses, are too small to see, grimacing, blocked by pets, profiles of a sentence or two. I've tried to be different with the space given, have you? Now, are you still awake? Shaking your head? Laughing at me or could we laugh together? I'm here... where are you?
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. A little patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. A little romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Just OK
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it
My Top Interests:
Nature and Outdoors
I live in the mountains for a reason.... nature is crucial to me and my well being. I need to be near water, and moonlight is much better than neon for romance. The sound of wind in the trees, water in motion, beats planes and traffic.... I did love walking the beaches of Oregon and Washington when living and visiting there.
Music is in my head and soul much of the time... better than voices though, right? If only I could play an instrument! Rock, Jazz, Classical, Blues.... more imaginative than formulaic, but I am learning some new stuff too! No rap and not much country though.
This is really a combination choice... I try to continue to educate myself and have interests in many of the other choices listed here as areas to educate myself in! News, politics, religion, history, tech.... and how can one not choose family and friends? Restaurants? Arts? Movies? Creating? Some sports? Games? All pieces of the puzzle.
Message Starter Ideas
This member would like to know one or more of the following about you:
Q. Do you like to read? What is your favorite book?
Q. Is family important to you? Describe your relationship with your family?
Q. If two of your closest friends were asked to describe you what do you think they would say?
Q. Do you like the outdoors? What do you enjoy doing the most?