A little about me...
Gosh..How did we get here?.. I never saw myself at 46 and being single raising a daughter alone. I always figured I would be married, 3 or 4 kids, house ...ya know? ...It's just been my daughter and I for 6 years now, been doing the best I can. Raising her. Loving her. We do everything together. In the last 12 months it seems her mother has been a little more interested in participating. I still don't know how to feel about that :/ She is who she is and I cant change that, but I do want my daughter to know her mother and for them to have a relationship. She can make up her own mind as she matures.(I really hope I have been making the right decision on this)
Sooo... a couple weeks ago a friend of mine said that I need to begin to show my daughter what a healthy relationship is. (yes. I know. Its been THAT long) She said I need to be her role model in that... it hit me like a slap in the face... Shes right on so many levels....Ive been a musician my whole life..love lakes and boats... love to ride motorcycles and mnt. bikes, skiing...anything out side...but inside too... cuddle and kiss...movies and dinner.. anything with kids too. Love kids. Wish I could have had ten of 'em :)
About the one I'm looking for...
Well...the first and most important thing I suppose is that you understand this is a package deal. My daughter is my everything right now. I don't know where she stops and I begin, and I know that's not a good thing. It's not that I am looking for a mother for, but I am looking for someone that...well you know. Maybe you are a single parent too?
I AM the one you are looking for. I know this with all my heart. Your team mate. Your friend. Your partner. Your lover. I know your out there somewhere... we don't have to be alone. You just have to slow down and little and really look.
One last thing is. I know reading this you may think "drama guy" but the truth is I am totally anti-drama..really. And I don't go around saying, "my ex this and my ex that" I hate that actually.
Im not really into astrology, but I am a "Cancer" to the bone. Passionate, and very loyal. I will NEVER cheat on you. I wouldn't put someone through what I went through. I just want to love and be loved and I want my baby to see it.
Oh, and I want to move out of Alaska. Soon. I was born here and I love it, but I want my kid to be exposed to more opportunity. I have lots of friends in Washington so..that's part of my plan. Good luck in your search. Truly
I'd just like to add...
I tried to fill this up with words describing how great I am several times now. Just couldn't hit save. That's not saying that there aren't a lot of great things about me because I know there are.. I just have to get past the fear of being hurt, as do you, and put myself out there. Somehow I have ended up in this weird circle of loneliness but being afraid to reach out. I look at your profiles, I do...I'm just having a hard time making the move
That being said. Here I am....Sorry I cant figure out how to wrap all of this a candy coating...fact is tho, once you began to open the wrapper, you would see it...Figured I would try the totally honest approach instead. That way you can decide right here if you want to poke around, instead of being lured in by BS and then saying...omg! The question is, will you slow down and little and look deeper....and just take the chance... I really am a great, normal, down to earth guy just trying to raise his kid right. but, you know...Im alone and it sux
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I love it
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Extremely patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Extremely romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Often early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it
My Top Interests:
Nature and Outdoors
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