A little about me...
I'm 6'3" and 230 lbs with long/narrow feet (14/B), kinda honey brown or mocha colored, fit mentally and physically (but need to lose about 20 of those pounds) and sexually, non-smoker, social drinker, kinda funny, self-assured and not too bad to look at. I have lived on the Windward side of Oahu for many years, but get all over these wonderful rocks in the middle of the ocean we call home. I grew up mostly in the San Fran/Oakland Bay Area, but have lived here for over 30 years. I'm a self-employed lawyer, but recently closed my office and now just do what interests me, so my time is mostly mine, working out, reading books and things I've long wanted to, going to different places and looking for nice, sexy companions for adventure, learning and play.
About the one I'm looking for...
She's got to be attractive and fit, mentally, physically and sexually (yes, even as a so-called "senior"). She's got to have a life other than work, her kids and grandkids, and gardening. Of course, honesty and truthfulness are essential and usually the same, as well as an absence of game-playing and old relationship/emotional baggage. I don't seem to long enjoy ladies who live on other islands/states , but have met some delightful women from all over, so I'm open to the right person wherever she may be. I also don't do well with regular smokers or women who have to drink alcohol almost daily in any amount. Don't get me wrong, I drink a couple beers or glasses of red/white wine often when I'm out and about and having fun, but I usually enjoy making love without being impaired by anything other than the lady I'm with at the time. I have also tried to participate in relationships with ladies who are separated but still married or who have recently broken up with a "boyfriend", and other ladies who have only recently moved to Hawaii, and, regrettably, have not had many enjoyable experiences with most of them. In other words, I'm looking for a normal lady who has kept herself fit and cool and who is ready for everything good.
I'd just like to add...
I'm old-fashioned, I guess, but kissing, hugging and caressing are musts! And, please, I seldom respond to ladies who have no photos or only Wink and who have not seriously thought about my words or what they really want and then must do to have adventure, learning and play. Today I met a non-black lady who did not like cats and, in fact, said she was afraid of cats and that they were somehow dangerous to innocent people, and this was from a lady who owned a pit bull and golden retreiver which she admitted were far more dangerous. Oh ve? Unfortunately, I will never understand why so many black women detest cats and/or fell so uncomfortable about and around them.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I cook rather than starve
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes late
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Just OK
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Just OK
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
I'm a jogger and love to work out. I don't ride bicycles, but this was the only picture under Fitness.
I play casual video games, and sometimes First Person shooters. I also play Scrabble , trivia and other p/c games.
News and Politics
I strongly support President Obama, not because he's black, but because he's a great person and President.
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Q. Do you like to stay in shape? If so how important is it to you?
Q. If two of your closest friends were asked to describe you what do you think they would say?
Q. Describe four of your main goals in life.
Q. If you had to leave everything behind but got to choose 5 things to take with you what would they be?