A little about me...
Honest, straight forward, yet with respect....... I have gratefully received my share of messages ; I feel the above words describe how best to correspond in order to avoid receiving mesgs. stictly based on the visual (photos). Therefore, I shall begin by saying that the first section I read in a profile is the person’s listed religion. I wish the choice read.... Do you have a personal relationship with the one who is in control and whose love for you is greater and more real than you can ever experience with anyone here on earth? (I see my number of messages starting to decline, or not). Secondly, I check to see if the person prefers to smoke, because I am not a smoker. Additionally, photos, I believe are important and should be updated. It is disheartening and embarrassing, to meet someone in person whose appearance is unlike the photos they posted. We all age - some more gracefully than others, nothing wrong with that. About me....my photos actually speak volumes relative to what I value in life: my son,(family) friends, animals, and staying healthy. If I delve a bit more as to where the photos were taken and what the occasions were then you would know even more about me. I shall leave that for conversation.
About the one I'm looking for...
Have you ever found yourself saying or thinking ....I'm going to wait for the right person to come along? Since my legal separation and subsequent divorce (6yrs.ago) I decided that I would not seek to find "The right person," but instead challenge myself to become the best person I can be for me first and simultaneously for the individual God desires for me, (if it is his will).
In that indiividual I would so appreciate that he possess the ability to communicate and be able to utter the words,'I'm sorry,' when deemed appropriete. I guess that would require a man who knows what it is to be humble and have integrity. A man who desires to grow 'together' spiritually, (a life long journey). One who hasn't lost all of his inner child and can enjoy doing things he did when he was younger. One who agrees that problems should be resolved before saying good night and won't hold a grudge by pouting for days. One who values people, (family, friends) rather than things. Last but certainly not least, a man that enjoys wearing cologne from time to time. ;-)
I'd just like to add...
In closing, I’d like to add that I don’t correspond with men who are separated, because truly you are still married, and although I may not know the specifics of where your relationship stands, prayers may be going out for you and I would not want to divide a potential reconciliation. I always say, never give up hope (a noun). Secondly, we may all be strangers on this site, but we have more in common than we realize; we all have a story… titled Divorced, or Widowed. We have another thing in common; we are created equal… with a strong - innate desire to love and be loved. Faith, hope and love, but the greatest of these is love. God has wired us for relationships; In the very nature of God, the Trinity, God models a relationship for us. Finally, for interests I hope to share.... wow wouldn't it be great to train for a marathon together. Anyone can do one, not everyone can train for one....think about it. What a beneficial way and productive way to spend time together. I once lived in West Berlin and had the opportunity to ski in Bavaria, I would love to revisit and share that experience with someone. So much could be included in this section, yet also shared in conversation. Until we meet....Adios
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I really enjoy cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Quite romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. There's nothing better
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it
My Top Interests:
Religion and Spirituality
Family and Friends