A little about me...
Born and raised in New York, I've lived in Louisville since 1975. I am politically liberal and interested in cultural and spiritual diversity. I describe myself as Jewish by heritage, Pagan by choice, Buddhist by philosophy, and Atheist on Sundays. I am an Art Therapist by profession, working with survivors of intimate partner and/or sexual violence, and wanting to remember there are kind, loving, and considerate men out there. My "wasband" and I were separated 8 years before finalizing divorce in 2014. Another exclusive relationship of 5 years ended in 2012. I have a wonderful group of intelligent and creative friends, but miss having a special someone with whom to snuggle, share, reflect, and reciprocate. I am looking for a gentle, intelligent, non-addicted, companion who is financially stable, intellectually curious, and confident without being arrogant. Honesty and authenticity are crucial. Would enjoy time together but also allow for individual interests and alone time. Hoping for friendship initially that could evolve into an exclusive intimate relationship, long-term.
About the one I'm looking for...
I am seeking a non-smoking, non-addicted, male companion, generally close in age, for friendship and possible long-term, committed relationship; a man of dignity, principles, and love. I seek someone who shares my interest in people, creative ideas, all the arts, cultural and spiritual diversity. I am fair, loyal. and honest, financially stable, and seek the same. You might find me on g mail as wiccabuju or look for me on okcupid. I prefer collaboration and win-win problem solving over competition, but do not mind spirited conversations about different philosophical and ideological perspectives. My relationship philosophy is that we have independent areas of life but also substantial amount of shared overlap. We are each responsible for our own feelings and for communicating our respective needs as honestly and openly as possible, to share, listen, challenge at times, and support one another while doing some work for the common good.
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Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. A little romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes late
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
Religion and Spirituality
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