A little about me...
DWM ENFP 50+[I know I'm older] (But that doesn't count,'cause I think I'm only 35) 6'3"; hazel eyes Lt br/red hair quick to smile passionate solid of body & heart, but built for comfort not speed. N/S,N/D honest, spiritual but interested in metaphysics, although I AM on a first name basis with God. Love hiking & camping skiing beach horseback-riding cats museums art; comfortable in kitchen, enjoy healthy food; don't believe in gender based responsibilities; NPR, music(classical & jazz),hot tubs,reading, quiet times. I love to travel. Hate selfish, Critical, Negative people! My female friends say I'm a sensitive,caring,respectful person who is a good listener. They also say that I am an Earthy-Laid-back guy who enjoys the Simple Life. My Astrologer says I have an Old-Soul. I believe that the best life has to offer happens when love is a gift freely given and you are loved in return. I give relaxing, soothing body rubs, am non-smothering, enjoy togetherness & separateness. I'm attracted to women who are youthful (not necessarily young), who are as fascinated as I am by the challenge of love between men & women, & who aren't panicked about not being in a relationship right now.
About the one I'm looking for...
ISO S/D WF, attractive of soul,charming,easy going,green eyes & redhead(I love freckles!) or blue eyes & brunette, about 5'9"-6'3"(with weight proportional to height) emotionally secure; intelligent & degreed;caring;who can laugh & appreciates my humor at least some of the time; doesn't mind a little clutter;who enjoys gowns/jeans/shorts;is affectionate;has positive attitude,is in touch with her spiritual & personal self. I'm looking for a tender soulmate with an open heart & mind--"who doesn't let old baggage ruin a new trip". Someone with traditional values - honesty, integrity, stability - but appreciates fairness,independance & flexability; who would like to find the ultimate spiritual & sexual partner & friend. A woman who absolutely loves herself(insecurities included). Who knows what she wants out of life & isn't afraid to express herself regularly. Who's dependable, spontaneous & accountable for her actions & inaction's. Who possess a vibrant mind, a healthy spirit & delicious body.
[most of this is negotiable-depending on the person]
[[Ladies this is important !!
no picture - NO INTEREST.
no complete profile - NO INTEREST.
I think this is fair, I took the time and energy to do mine!!!]]
I'd just like to add...
Ask me about my latest project.
Since I also use a compatibility score beyond what is here,
called the Graham Scale, if you would when you contact me, I would like to know your DoB [Date of Birth (mmddyyyy)] the rest of the information is usually in your profile or we will find out in the course of our conversations.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I love it
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Quite romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
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Q. Do you like to read? What is your favorite book?
Q. Is family important to you? Describe your relationship with your family?
Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?
Q. Describe four of your main goals in life.