A little about me...
finished dabbling, now pondering...lol; I'm positive; friendly (wake up smiling); talkative (thanks mom) but I know when to listen; very mechanical but not qualified to fix people (I offer advice when asked, hence dktrg); spontaneous; baggage is in the dumpster with the drama..; political activist; constantly learning ; I believe in a spiritual connection; readily adaptable; romantic; affectionate; touchy feeley; enjoy most everything outdoors, have tried most; enjoy board games and a scrabble champ...lol; walking, tennis, golf, bicycle riding, bowling, swimming is good; not real clever but I catch on fast; humorous (ask me); suntans are good; never met a challenge I didn't enjoy; not jealous, controlling, possessive; enjoy kissing; energetic libido; I enjoy helping in the kitchen / household chores, better at grilling than cooking; good energy; I don't have any problems asking for directions; laugh at myself a lot; not a material person; looking for a partner in all aspects, working, playing, loving, attending church, going to meetings; former music teacher; actually grew up in Des Moines, Iowa but i could not get that info on to the profile list...so I selected a warmer place.. thanks for visiting, hugs
About the one I'm looking for...
enjoys initiating, aggressive, assertive but knows when to ask for help; open-minded; weight proportional; reciprocity; likes to enjoy touching, receiving, giving or we won't connect; one who can deal with lifes' speed bumps; likes surprises / to surprise; smokers / drinkers are ok, no nasty drinkers tho; shorter skirts / dresses are good; cleveage is good(demonstrates confidence to me); spirituality is good; likes excercise; good conversation; doesn't need to be a clean fanatic; not reluctant to talk about sex outside the bedroom (we are adults,in spite of what your parents told you..); happy / smiles are a must - smiling is some of the best medicine..; I need space, you need space, we enjoy each other, sounds like plan A; hugs & thanks for looking.
I'd just like to add...
I have taken ballroom dance lessons and enjoy dancing (not very good but I won't embarrass you). There is someplace to go dancing every night here in Hilo(small town atmosphere) and participation is not required....just sit, drink, watch people..it is important to just get out and enjoy life, not let life make us old but challenge life to work with us as we get older. I really enjoy watching people while drinking a cup of coffee, do you??
If you are still with me, thank you. I have listed a lot of info; the info is relevant to what I have found does/ does not resonate during a coffee date / online chat ( I do have a webcam for communication). so I have listed lots of info for you to mull over and get a better perspective of me. I'm not perfect but I try my best and I am very flexible knowing that there will be differences of opinion. Open communication is paramount in a successful relationship / partnership. Add honesty, integrity, sharing, fidelity, and a 50 / 50 effort. I do not mind being corrected (with kisses :-) and do not hold grudges. I handle situations "head on" for resolution / closure.
thank you so much for taking time to read all of this.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it