A little about me...
I'm a gentleman most of the time, compassionate, caring, and have a soft heart toward creatures--animals or people--in need. I love the outdoors, but I can enjoy being home watching a TV show or movie with the right person. I'm quite comfortable being alone but would rather have a wonderful lady with whom to share some time. I enjoy meeting people, and conversing with well spoken, open-minded people. I tend to be a bit on the conservative side with respect to social issues. Though I try hard to overcome it, I am sometimes shy and am often too reluctant to show my affection in public. For the most part, I am more than willing to reveal and discuss my feelings and thoughts about anything. I'm told I am a left brained person and that may be true as I am retired from a life of information systems. Solving problems is second nature to me, but I am learning to try NOT to do that with the females in my life. Though good relationships are elusive and hard to find, there is an irrepressible desire in me to have one. But, I also realize I may have some adapting to do, even at this age. Though I like who I am, I'm not so arrogant to believe I cannot improve.
About the one I'm looking for...
I want to find a lady I can enjoy in all situations. She must be a lady I can trust, respect, laugh with, cry in front of, and love looking at. She must be willing to enjoy intimacy and strive for that as we get to know one another. OK, so all that may mean we must spend time and effort to get to that point. Ultimately, she and I must be able to talk about anything and everything. I want her to be a lady desired by other guys and, yet, only care that I desire her. I hope she is as passionate about communicating as I am and not be one that is unwilling to open up. I want to talk about everything that we say or feel.
I hope you have photos posted but I am not impressed with your photos of landscapes, your animals, even your children and grand-children. I know you love them and are proud of them, but I'm interested in who and what your are rather than your idea of neat photos that do not depict you. Neither your children nor your grandchildren will likely influence my decision to get acquainted with you. I'm not really into flirts, and, like most women tell me, write an email.
I'd just like to add...
A few other things I really do enjoy are NASCAR racing, travel, amateur radio, writing (I edit a magazine), dining out, home cooked meals, movies ... did I say travel?
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I cook rather than starve
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. A little romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Often early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
Former IT director. I love technology and using it.
Have always loved music. I believe it touches the heart and bypasses the brain.
Religion and Spirituality
I'm a Christian and I believe spiritual matters are vitally important.
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