A little about me...
Love animals, children, music, the outdoors, reading, dancing (would love dance partner), movies, and listen to NPR radio and books while at work. I look much, much younger than my age. I work in the health care field. If you are familiar with the Meyers-Briggs personality scale (you can google it and take the test, if you are curious about your type.) I am an INFJ, which means I am very intuitive, and can zero in on insincerity in a flash. I like to be around people who are interested and interesting. I don't have to go out continuously to have a good time. I don't like pretentious, self-important guys. I look for someone with a good heart and a generosity of spirit, as I strive for. I love my kids and grandchild, but I am not entangled with their lives. I don't want to someone who lives their life for them. I also don't care for long distance relationships; they are very difficult to maintain.
About the one I'm looking for...
Caucasian gentleman with a good sense of humor, classy, interesting, fun,well-groomed, non-smoker and financially secure. Let's face it, most guys over 60 are not drop dead gorgeous. I am o.k. with that. Intellect, along with other qualities would certainly compensate for handsomeness. Sharing similar interests would be a definite plus, at least 50% of the time. I am not wild about sports, but have no objection if a person is a die hard fan. I am not someone who is just interested in one intimate encounter. I can't understand men who require women to be in only one type.
I'd just like to add...
I am more spiritual than religious. I am a Christian..
I prefer one-to-one conversations to being at a large party. I am compassionate and a great listener. I try to treat others as I want to be treated.
If you are looking for someone who can drop everything and travel, that's something I am not able to do on the spur of the moment. All I have are weekends and vacation days I can use at work..
In a relationship I believe there should be "spaces in your togetherness". I don't require constant attention, but I like to hear from that special person every day. Gallantry really impresses me. I like someone who makes me feel special--who really cares about what I feel and think.
I don't really drink much (maybe a Margarita occasionally) and do not smoke. Smoking and excessive drinking are deal breakers in a friend or partner.
I have been told that my photos do not do me justice.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I cook rather than starve
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Quite romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always on time
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. There's nothing better
My Top Interests:
I love all kinds of music, with a special fondness for 80's music. My favorite bands are Fleetwood Mac, Guns and Roses, Foreigner, Led Zepelin, Maroon 5, and too many more to mention. Also, I like classical.
I have gone to movies all my life--both my parents liked movies, and I can name many stars, no matter what the movie. My favorite genre is mystery and adventure.
I enjoy good conversation more than the food. My favorite food is seafood.
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