A little about me...
im a woman of great resolve & inner strength..my tenacity has been tested over these last several months , but I am resilient & determined...i am devoted to that which i care about. understanding to a fault & sometimes forgiving to my own demise..i will not however , tolerate ill manners , abusive behavior or that which is negative..i am casually elegant N my style..a messy neatnic..ive experienced the good , the bad & the ugly N life..chased the American dream..i have been married ,given birth , divorced , raised children as a single parent without their father`s input..they R college educated ..gainfully employed..N healthy relationships, well adjusted & happy..now I live life on my terms..im free spirited & independent.. a private person & value my contemplative time alone..i love the summer, the long days , being outside , whether its walking my dogs..out running errands..cruisn w/ the sunroof open, music playin , wind N my hair..sundresses & sandals..hanging out at a festival or other event..being around happy people havin fun..i love the serenity of water, being out on a boat..growing flowers..grilling out on my baby Weber..i like a nice home , it is my oasis away from the chaos of life..
About the one I'm looking for...
lets see , a man w/ character & style who is interesting..intelligent , well mannered..generous ( gives flowers & compliments just because )..has a sense of humor..not jealous , possessive or controlling...someone who can embrace & appreciate my strengths & my weaknesses..a man who is secure withN himself & knows how to treat a women like a lady..a man who takes care of himself & his personal spaces..good teeth..definitely NOT a SMOKER or A BIG BOOZER..someone who enjoys life , being outside , boating ,being near the water..dogs ( animals in general ) must enjoy music & the arts..a man who appreciates the " finer " things in life , as well as the " simple" things in life..lets face it , there has to B " chemistry ".. i like broad shoulders & strong arms..a good , positive attitude is important..a quality human being , a man who can go from jeans , 2 a suit or /a tux w/ease..someone to laugh , play , sing & dance with..
what im NOT into : guys who want 2 tame me..guys looking 4 someone 2 spice up their boring marriage..someone using me to forget someone else / on the rebound or someone looking 2 just get laid ..id rather do without than do with THAT
I'd just like to add...
i love contemporary architecture..open spaces..water effects & gardenscapes..i have a real passion 4 music..especially blues..jazz..modern country..i like going 2 festivals..local venues 4 live music & music related events. chillin in a lawn chair w/ a picnic ...dancing N the pit..a dance floor or under the stars...museums..comedy clubs..local attractions & happenings ..i enjoy dining out whether its a mom & pop diner , an outdoor bistro..a tiki bar by the water or restaurant w/a more formal atmosphere..i love the calming effect of being around the water..on a boat..whether its a river, a lake or the ocean..i like some sports..got into Nascar 4 awhile went 2 alot of races..i like sports cars..i like learning about new things..exploring new places..wish i could travel more..showed quarter horses in my youth..grew up a military brat..i like living well & partaking of what money buys , but it isnt what makes me , ME....i want to share some laughter , capture some excitement , basically embrace life with someone who values life & appreciates me in it !
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I cook rather than starve
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. A little patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Extremely romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
music sets the tone &enhances the mood
Nature and Outdoors
from the majesty of a mountain vista , the glory of a sunrise , to the color & texture of wildlife , it puts life in perspective
exploring new places is always an adventure ..be it a road trip to a music festival or flying somewhere for fun and frolic , it is always good to get away
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