A little about me...
im independent & self sufficient..tenacious & determined ..freespirited , i like living life , not existing N it..i take care of myself. im casually elegant N my style...im devoted to that which i care about..ive been single 4 awhile..been around the block a few times..ive experienced the good , the bad & the ugly N life & relationships..i live life 2 the fullest within my means & available time..im definitely not sedentary theres always something 2 do or needs 2 B done..im a private person & value my contemplative time alone , although , i like getting lost N a crowd..im N the fashion industry. thus i have a crazy work schedule.. (not a 9-2-5er .. Saturdays & some evenings ) so i have to B spontaneous or plan ahead..i love the summer..being outside , whether its walking my dogs..out running errands w/ the sunroof open, wind N my hair..sundresses & sandals..hanging out at a festival or other event..growing flowers/ gardening..grilling out on my baby webber..i like a nice home..it is my oasis away from the chaos of life
..unfortunately my MOM passed away unexpectedly 2 weeks ago ...i found her dead in her home ...my tenacity ..my strength ..my resolve is being tested ...and so it goes
About the one I'm looking for...
lets dream big..how about a prince on a white horse..or better yet a black stallion ( i showed quarter horses N my youth ) lets see..a man with character & style..intelligent..well mannered..little bit of that "bad boy " thing ... patient..has a sense of humor..not jealous ,possessive or dominating ..takes care of himself & his personal spaces.. good teeth ..definitely NOT a SMOKER..someone who likes nature , being outside , near the water ..dogs & music...it would B nice if i could find someone who has some of the same interests as me & lets face it there must B chemistry..thats what starts the dialogue...so hey im going 2 dream ..Blake Shelton or Jason Aldean those well fittin " jeans ..plus Blake is funny & just cool... Al Pacino because hes got those raw, rugged good looks & attitude ..... Richard Gere because he , too , is handsome in a refined mature way , he appears to be , a quiet gentleman .
. what im NOT into : guys who want someone 2 spice up their boring marriage..someone using me to forget someone else / on the rebound or someone looking 2 just get laid ..id rather do without , than do with that ....
I'd just like to add...
i love contemporary architecture..open spaces..water effects & gardenscapes..i have a real passion 4 music..especially blues..jazz..modern country ..i like going 2 festivals..local venues 4 live music & music related events..dancing N the pit..a dance floor or under the stars...museums..comedy clubs..local attractions & happenings ..i enjoy dining out whether its a mom & pop diner , an outdoor bistro..a tiki bar by the water or restaurant w/a more formal atmosphere..i love the calming effect of being around the water..on a boat..whether its a river, a lake or the ocean..i like watching football..got into Nascar 4 awhile went 2 alot of races..i like sports cars..i like learning about new things..exploring new places..wish i could travel more..i like the things money buys but they R not what makes me , ME..ive had it all & walked away from it , now im somewhere in the middle & wiser 4 it ..ive found that all the manmade stuff in the world cant bring you happiness if you dont have peace in your soul & good health..
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. A little patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Extremely romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
music sets the tone &enhances the mood
Nature and Outdoors
from the majesty of a mountain vista , the glory of a sunrise , to the color & texture of wildlife , it puts life in perspective
exploring new places is always an adventure ..be it a road trip to a music festival or flying somewhere for fun and frolic , it is always good to get away
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