A little about me...
I have been divorced since 1995 and I am a little cynical about getting remarried, but I guess the right person might be able to change my mind. The last man I dated, I had to find in Germany, but after 3+ years of dating internationally, it took a toll and we went our separate ways.
Not looking for a FWB relationship either, but something a little more intimate and more monogamous. I am a one man woman and for the right man, I would move mountains (and have). If you can get under my skin and into my mind, I am quite spontaneous, adventurous and very daring,
I am comfortable with myself and can dress FOR ALL OCCASIONS (jeans/t-shirt, sequined gown, lingerie and business casual) and I very much enjoy dressing up for the right man.
About the one I'm looking for...
I prefer a man to be within my age range, not too much older and not too much younger (I don't want to date my son or my father). I find men who smoke and/or have that beer belly thing going on to be a turn off.
I like a man, who is intelligent and demonstrates it in subtle ways. I like a flirt and I am a really big flirt back, if I am attracted to you. Your "toys" are unimportant to me, I have my own, but that being said I am not interested in being your "sugar momma" either.
I don't have a specific "type" of guy, in that they have to be blonde, brunette, American, Caucasian, an exact age or anything so specific (accept for things that I don't like...see above and at least 5'9" or taller), but I will know him by the feeling I get from him and the fact that he keeps coming up in my thoughts, despite my best efforts (LOL).
I'd just like to add...
I have had some responses to my profile and to those that sent messages to me, thank you for your attention and your flattery. Having said this, I have gotten quite a few messages from gentlemen out of state and unless you are moving here shortly or visit here very frequently, I am not sure how that is going to work out. I am not trying to discourage your efforts, but rather I am trying to be practical, given the logistics.
For those of you, who are more locally based and after reading my profile think that we may be a good match, I invite you to "message" me and to write a few sentences down in the message. It will get my attention faster and I am getting too many "flirts" or one liners like, "I am interested", which honestly seems a little too easy or a little to lazy (take your pick).
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I cook rather than starve
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Often early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
I love to travel, be it trains, planes, automobiles, mopeds, slow ferries, fast ferries, euro-rail, it's all good. I love to learn the culture, attempt the language, hang out with the locals, try new cuisine...just about all of it is wonderful to me. I don't even mind schlepping the luggage (or my backpack). I am also a member of couchsurfing.org
I believe that fitness is how we stay young (in both body and mind). I swim in the pool in my backyard, ride my bike all around ASU Campus and Tempe. I have an elliptical that I use almost daily and I like to do almost anything physical (including cleaning/moving) or team sports (dodgeball, kickball, flag football).
Music is like therapy to me and has the ability to change my mood/disposition. I have very eclectic tastes in music. I like Frank Zappa, Nina Simone, Genesis, Dave Matthews Band, Suzanne Ciani, Sarah McLaughlin, Joni Mitchell, Janis Ian, Indigo Girls, Daughtry, Jon Secada, Arrested Development, Joe Walsh, Eric Clapton, The Beatles, The Eagles, Aerosmith, ZZ Top, Earth Wind & Fire, Adele, The Fray, Coldplay, Yanni, Garth & Dolly, John Lennon, Janet Jackson, The Monkees...and much more!
Message Starter Ideas
This member would like to know one or more of the following about you:
Q. Do you like to stay in shape? If so how important is it to you?
Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?
Q. If you had to leave everything behind but got to choose 5 things to take with you what would they be?
Q. Do you have any strange or hidden talents?