A little about me...
I live in a gated community in Oceanside. Prior to that I lived in Honolulu for almost 30 years. I own a home in Honolulu, financially secure. I am a hardworking woman, was raised by very strict and conservative parents.
I learned a lot from them which I cherished until now. Keeping my moral values high, be humble, kind and helpful to others are few to mention. Am physically and mentally fit, eat healthy foods. No maintenance medication for blood pressure, cholesterol or diabetes; don't smoke, drink or gamble. Family and friends are important to me. I have grandkids who I love very much. My husband died in active duty (Navy) left me a 4 year girl and 11 months baby boy. I thought it was the end of my world.. cried a lot for the first 5 years, couldn't sleep good, always get sick. My mother comforted me emotionally, physically, spiritually. She reminded me each day I need to be strong for my kids and be closed to God. I prayed each day to get help from HIM. I devoted most of my time in raising my kids until their college years. I didn't think about myself. Friends and relatives were all
amazed... raising my kids by myself and all the accomplishments I had achieved. My turn to find you. Are you there my lucky man? Let us meet...
About the one I'm looking for...
My desire in a relationship, we must be both honest, kind, loving, caring, understanding, respectful, and thoughtful to each other. If you do open the door for your woman like what my husband did... it will be a big plus. I believed communication, honesty, and trust play a big role to have a happy and everlasting relationship. If an issue arises... We should talk in a normal tone of voice to solve it before going to bed. What are inside you count the most not your outer looks. You must be family oriented, God fearing man, and "ONE WOMAN MAN" Do you hold hands with your woman? If you do, that would be great... I like it.
I'd just like to add...
I love gardening... flowers, vegetables, fruit trees. My backyard here is not big enough to raise more fruit trees, vegetables and flowering plants. I eat lots of fruits and vegetables everyday but not a vegetarian. Praying and thanking GOD, maintaining my house clean and organized, do some exercises are few of my daily routines. I am physically and mentally fit person.... down to earth, easy to get along with. I like watching news, game shows, sports like baseball, basketball, volleyball, etc. I like to dance too and listen to music.
I love nature and like to travel. I've been to Europe, I was in China this past March 2011 and would like to see other part of Asia someday. Was in a cruise and looking forward for more cruises.
I would like to add ...am a low maintenance woman, don't wear make up but use lipstick sometimes. I am so lucky... don't have to use any body deodorant.
Thanks for taking your time to read my profile. Send me a message...I will reply to those with photos only.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
Religion and Spirituality
I love God above all...I thank Him every morning when I wake up for giving me another day to live , for the foods I am about to eat, for all the blessings, for my good health and soon. He strengthen my belief in Him when I was in mourning when my husband passed. I love you with all my heart my Lord and my Savior!
Nature and Outdoors
I love God's creation ... mountains, rivers, lakes, waterfalls,ocean, plants, trees, flowers, birds etc. I love being outside ... walking is great, sight seeing makes me feel relaxing.
Traveling was my dream when I was still in my country. Each time I see an airplne flying above me I questioned myself. "When could I travel to see another country or countries"? I was given a chance to be living in a great country and I thank God for that opportunity! Few years ago I started traveling to fulfill my dream by sea and by land. I traveled with a group of people ... would be nice to travel with a special man.
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