A little about me...
I live in a gated community in Oceanside. Was a resident of Honolulu for almost 30 years. Bought 2 houses in Honolulu, one was paid off. Got tired of renting out houses, sold one in 2004. Then recently sold the 2nd house and re-invested in land. I own acreages of land in southern CA. Warren buffet is a neighbor in one of my land investments. I found it better to invest on land than in houses, no headaches but have to pay property taxes. I was raised by very strict and conservative parents. Keeping moral values high was instilled in me until now. I cherished, valued, learned a lot from them. Be humble, kind, respectful, helpful, to mention a few . Am physically & mentally fit, financially secure.
My husband passed away, left me a 4 year old girl & 11 months baby. I thought it was the end of my world.. Cried a lot, always get sick, couldn't eat and sleep well for the first 5 years. My mother comforted me physically, mentally, emotionally,spiritually. She reminded me each day to be strong for my kids & be closed to GOD. I devoted most of my time in raising my kids until their college years. Family, relatives, & friends were all amazed for raising my kids by myself & for all the accomplishments I had achieved.
About the one I'm looking for...
My desire in a relationship: He must be faithful, honest, understanding, kind, loving, caring, affectionate, a ONE WOMAN MAN, a BELIEVER & FEAR GOD. I believe communication, honesty and trust are good spices in a healthy & lasting relationship. If an issue arises, it should be discussed in a well manner behavior before going to bed. .. So we both could sleep well. I don't want raising of voice, I get hurt easy ( very sensitive). He should be a good listener not judgmental, financially secure, physically fit. It will be a big plus if you do open doors for your special woman... I love it. He should be proud, respect and accept his special woman for who she is. Will you hold hands while you walk or watch TV with her or in a ny public places? If you do that will be fantastic, I like it. What are inside you count the most not your outer looks. I want to meet my special man who doesn't smoke, gamble or drink .
I'd just like to add...
I would like to add: I'm down to earth woman, easy to get along with, a good listener, not judgmental, love gardening ( vegetables, fruit trees, flowers, plants) I like dancing, listening to music of all kinds, love watching sports live or on TV. Praying, maintaining my house clean & organized, exercise are few of my daily routines. Don't have prescription drugs to maintain good health but taking some vitamins. A low maintenance woman don't wear make up but wear lipstick sometimes. Never in my whole life I used body deodorant. I'm blessed not to use any & I thanked GOD for that!!! I love my grandchildren & very proud to be their grandmother. They are all smart academically in school. For every award each of my grandchildren received I gave some money to motivate them for their efforts in studying. They saved their money & appreciated the amount I gave them. I knew how to look back.. owed gratitude from my eldest brother who was my stepping stone to be here in a great country. I always visit him in Hawaii where he lives. Am very proud of him & thanked GOD to have such a caring, loving, kind hearted brother. I belong to a family who are very close to each other. I thanked my parents for the wonderful upbringing instilled on us.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
Religion and Spirituality
I love God above all...I thank Him every morning when I wake up for giving me another day to live , for the foods I am about to eat, for all the blessings, for my good health and so on. He strengthened my belief in Him when I was in mourning; my husband passed. I love you with all my heart my Lord and my Savior!
Nature and Outdoors
I love God's creation ... mountains, rivers, lakes, waterfalls,ocean, plants, trees, flowers, birds etc. I love being outside ... walking is great, sight seeing makes me feel relaxing. Watching water falls are amazing... Can not beat the beauty of water falling down on something. I am attracted by birds, butterflies of diferrent colors and sizes when they fly around me or close to me.
Traveling was my dream when I was still in my country. Each time I see an airplne flying above me I questioned myself. "When could I travel to see another country or countries"? I was given a chance to be living in a great country and I thank God for that opportunity! Few years ago I started traveling to fulfill my dream by sea and by land. I traveled with a group of people ... would be nice to travel with a special man. Looking forward for more cruises and land tours...
Message Starter Ideas
This member would like to know one or more of the following about you:
Q. Do you like to stay in shape? If so how important is it to you?
Q. Is family important to you? Describe your relationship with your family?
Q. Do you like the outdoors? What do you enjoy doing the most?
Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?