A little about me...
I live in a gated community in Oceanside. Was a resident of Honolulu for almost 30 years. Bought 2 houses in Honolulu, one was paid off. Got tired of renting out houses, sold one in 2004.. Then recently sold the 2nd house and re-invested in land. I own acreages of land in southern CA. Warren Buffett is a neighbor in one of my land investments. I found it better to invest on land than in houses,no head aches but I have to pay property taxes. I was raised by very strict and conservative parents. Keeping moral values high was instilled in me until now. I cherished, valued, learned a lot from them...be humble, kind, respectful, helpful to mention a few. Am physically & mentally fit, financially secure.
My husband passed away, left me a 4 year old girl & 11months baby. I thought it was the end of my world. Cried a lot, always get sick, couldn't sleep & eat well for first 5 years. My mother comforted me physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually. She reminded each day to be strong for my kids & be closed to GOD. I devoted most of my time in raising my kids till their college years. Family, relatives, & friends are important to me. They were all amazed for raising my kids by myself and for all the accomplishments I had achieved.
About the one I'm looking for...
.My desire in a relationship: He must be loyal,
honest, understanding, kind, loving, caring, affectionate, a "ONe WOMAN MAN, A BELIEVER & FEAR GOD". I believe communication is one of good spices in a healthy & lasting relationship. If an issue arises it should be discussed in a well manner behavior before going to bed...so we both can sleep well. I don't want raising of voice, I get hurt easy ( very sensitive).
He should be a good listener not judgemental It will be a big plus if you do open doors for your special woman... I love it. He should be proud and accept his special woman for who she is. Will you hold hands while we walk, watch TV, or in any public places? If you do, It will be fantastic I like it!!! What are inside you count the most not your outer looks.
I don't smoke, drink nor gamble... so I prefer if you don't smoke, drink or gamble. I can not stand smoke, but a light drinker maybe okay. I know lots of men wanted to drink wine ... Is that fair enough?
I wanted you to be opened to new ideas.. I will do the same.
I'd just like to add...
I would like to add: I'm a down to earth woman, easy to get along with, a good listener not judgemental, love gardening ( vegetables, fruits, flowers & plants). I like dancing, listening to music of all kinds, love watching sports live or on TV. Praying, maintaining my house clean & organized, exercise, are few of my daily routines.
Don't have prescription drugs to maintain good health but taking vitamins. A low maintenance woman , don't wear make up but wear lipstick sometimes. Never in my whole life I used any body deodorant. I'm blessed not to use any and &I thanked GOD !!
I love my grandchildren & very proud to be their grandmother. They are smart academically in school. For every award each of my grandchildren received, I gave some money to motivate them for their efforts in studying. They saved their money & appreciated the amount I gave them.
I knew how to look back... owed gratitude from my eldest brother who was my stepping stone to be here in a great country. I always visit him in Hawaii where he lives. I'm very proud of him and thanked GOD to have such a caring, kind hearted, and loving brother. I belong to a family who are very closed to each other. I thanked my parents for the wonderful upbringings instilled on us.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Very patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always early
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
My Top Interests:
Religion and Spirituality
I love God above all...I thank Him every morning when I wake up for giving me another day to live , for the foods I am about to eat, for all the blessings, for my good health and so on. He strengthened my belief in Him when I was in mourning; my husband passed. I love you with all my heart my Lord and my Savior!
Nature and Outdoors
I love God's creation ... mountains, rivers, lakes, waterfalls,ocean, plants, trees, flowers, birds etc. I love being outside ... walking is great, sight seeing makes me feel relaxing. Watching water falls are amazing... Can not beat the beauty of water falling down on something. I am attracted by birds, butterflies of diferrent colors and sizes when they fly around me or close to me.
Traveling was my dream when I was still in my country. Each time I see an airplne flying above me I questioned myself. "When could I travel to see another country or countries"? I was given a chance to be living in a great country and I thank God for that opportunity! Few years ago I started traveling to fulfill my dream by sea and by land. I traveled with a group of people ... would be nice to travel with a special man. Looking forward for more cruises and land tours...
Message Starter Ideas
This member would like to know one or more of the following about you:
Q. Do you like to stay in shape? If so how important is it to you?
Q. Is family important to you? Describe your relationship with your family?
Q. Do you like the outdoors? What do you enjoy doing the most?
Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?