A little about me...
I am a widow who looks and acts years younger and who lost the love of my life 14 years ago, and have learned to dodge those curve balls quite well. In those 14 years I have had two long term relationships which ended for various reasons.
I have three children who keep me grounded and three beautiful grandchildren who are my heart beats.
As for me, I am very sociable and will strike up a conversation with anyone. I am affectionate, sensual, witty, compromising, and a great listener. I love to dance....in the kitchen, in the bedroom, on the dance floor...just dance! I love the outdoors whether it be sitting on my patio, walking in the woods, or tanning at the beach. I keep physically fit by walking, bike riding and dancing. My social activities can involve weekend getaways, day trips, candlelit dinners, movies, cookouts, wine and beer festivals and concerts, or staying home and cooking for that special man. I enjoy watching football, tanning at the beach with the sand between my toes and the sun on my face watching the waves along the shore, shopping (of course), family and friend gatherings. I can be comfortable wearing jeans or a black dress. We are burning daylight guys so let's get moving!
About the one I'm looking for...
At this stage in my life I am looking for a man I can share my last journey and explore new adventures and experiences along with life's pleasures. I want to be a priority and not an option. I enjoy having a man in my life to share my morning coffee, just hear each others heartbeat in the middle of the night as we hold each other (no I'm not silly just real), and keeps me laughing. I miss and need to find that slow fire burn--when we touch, when our eyes meet. I'm searching for my best friend, someone affectionate, who challenges me in a good way, easy going, who is socially active, emotionally and financially stable, verbally communicates his feelings--if I make you upset let's talk and if "we can't make it right" then walk away and let me love again, if I excite you tell me, call just to say you're thinking of me. And while you don't have to be a gym rat I'd prefer you to be somewhat fit . Please don't waste my time if you're looking for only a friend w/benefits, no serious relationship, or a travel companion. I want the fairytale (without marriage) which will take me off this dating roller coaster!
I'd just like to add...
Our first date should be casual meeting for lunch/dinner and/or drinks but I am open to suggestions.
HOWEVER, YOU BETTER LOOK LIKE YOUR PICTURES OR YOU'RE BUYING ME DRINKS UNTIL YOU DO!
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I really enjoy cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Very romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always on time
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I'm not keen
My Top Interests:
Love dancing and listening to music and attending concerts and wine festivals.
Nature and Outdoors
Enjoy being outdoors whether it be at the beach, in the woods, sitting on the patio or whatever as long as the sun touches my face.
I am retired and would like to travel and explore new places.
Message Starter Ideas
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Q. Is family important to you? Describe your relationship with your family?
Q. If two of your closest friends were asked to describe you what do you think they would say?
Q. Do you like the outdoors? What do you enjoy doing the most?
Q. Do you like to travel? If you could go anywhere where would you?