A little about me...
I admire a man who is thoughtful of others, and especially of the woman in his life. Who likes to take the lead and also can follow sometimes :), who finds delightful restaurants or out of the way places and other surprises. I consider a man like this a treasure and someone to be cherished in all ways.
I admire a man who takes good care of himself all around.. I take very good care of myself and am very happy and relaxed.
I admire good character. I have used all the lessons I've experienced to build my own character.
I enjoy a simple life style, up beat, go with the flow, good values, simple comforts, work, relax and play, explore, experience and enjoy.
I value being genuine, goofy-fun, authentic, witty, spiritual, peaceful and comfortable with myself. Like to work out, gym, be athletic, love sports, adventures, in city or country farm. I really have wide bookends of interests. Guys have told me I'm a "cool girl" - love experiencing people having ah-ha moments.
I find it easy to be flexible while staying real to myself and set boundaries -will let you do that too!
Not looking for you to "complete me" I am good now, want to build companionship and then a feeling like we all belong!!!!
About the one I'm looking for...
To build a relationship we both want and like. Value family time also couple time and each our own private time. I want a man that is flexible, humorous, smart goofy, adaptable, honest, spiritual and empathetic, fun. I want him to value my time, ideas and needs like I will value his. I want him to feel natural giving and receiving.
I want a man to know his purpose in life and enjoy his day to day. I'm happy and like myself. I want a man who is happy and likes himself and LIKES me. I like my career, friends, family and hobbies...but I want some 100% fully present man time too.
Being able to go with the flow with a teenager sometimes - is huge. I can be a woman, a mom and a partner - just gotta be flexible and willing to plan ahead or enjoy the moment. Respect is earned - both ways. It should be fun.
"Men who have not made peace with the softer side of themselves make war on women". I like the tough guy who has learned to give me that soft side and know when to use each.
I've never lost the magic of feeling like a kid. I want a mature, responsible, respectful, loyal man that can be child-like too.
I'd just like to add...
I like to head out to a coffee shop, book store, movies, live music, woods, beach, bike ride, bowling, museum, gym, sports. Like to eat healthy but not fanatic.
enjoy time to stay home and read, play guitar, play cards, yard/house work, projects, tv, bake, music,have friends over, watch football or futbol.
I like guys in shape...not perfect or real bulky... but guys....I like it when you care about your body and have some muscle. I look like my pictures for real....
I also like guys who like to learn a little - Guys who can say, "hmmmm I never thought about it like that, I'll try it"
I like to go to my son's college soccer games.... :)
Guys, I want to consider you on this site...please help me out, be my hero and write something in your profile and post pictures to help me get a sense of who you are - c'mon you can do it!
no pic. no profile. no service, she said sweetly!
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I quite like cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Extremely patient
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Sometimes early
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it