A little about me...
All my friends say that it is NEVER dull around Vicki, and that I have two speeds: Afterburner and Off.
I am a woman of enormous honesty, integrity, dependability, patriotism, who puts NOTHING before her relationship with her Man, once it has been established. I am EXTREMELY selective, and do not enter into such a relationship easily, but once it is self-evident that he is The One, he has my absolute devotion, and trust. I am, without a shadow of a doubt, a one-Man woman, and expect the same from my Man. Any cheating WHATSOEVER, for ANY reason at all, would be an instant dealbreaker, as far as I am concerned, because the absolute bedrock of Trust upon which our Sacred Bond was established has been violated, compromised, and broken. There is no way to repair it and trust absolutely again, which is an untenable situation for me. The truth can hurt only once.
To avoid my Man's ever wanting to look elsewhere, my goal in our fabulous life together is to spoil him so rotten that no other woman would have him. I have also always kept up my appearance so that my Man is always proud to have me on his arm as heads turn when we enter the room.
About the one I'm looking for...
I am looking for a Man who is also a Gentleman, and who truly knows or can be shown by example what true, unconditional Love, based on a bedrock of absolute and inviolate Truth--NEVER lying to one another about ANYTHING--is all about (the truth hurts only once, whereas a lie is a dealbreaker). I also want a real marriage--a sacred, voluntary covenant between a man and a woman--to be as One, but without smothering each other and maintaining each other's sense of Self, while still being part of the One. Also, cheering each other on and being proud of the other's accomplishments, rather than being jealous. I need a man who can and will truly appreciate my intellect and strength.
I'd just like to add...
On a personal note, I raised a drug & alcohol free young woman of whom I could not be more proud. From the time she was a baby, it was our intent to produce a young adult who would be a productive, educated, non-biased member of society, & she is just that. I would like to meet a man who values this kind of accomplishment and perhaps has done so himself. One thing of which I am EXTREMELY wary of is men who let their daughters dictate whom they go out with, and possibly marry, and if they do marry a woman, who let their daughters come before their wives. THIS IS A DEALBREAKER for me, having had it happen personally.
I have done volunteer work with the SPCA and Humane Society, and after Katrina, I worked w/Humane Soc. Pres. & got PETS Bill passed so people could evacuate w/their pets in all States.
I also LOVE to travel, go on cruises, go to black tie events, and the like. I have organized and attended a multitude of black tie charity functions, and LOVE it.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I love it
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Quite patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Extremely romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always on time
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Enjoy it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. Like it a lot
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I enjoy it
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Family and Friends
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