A little about me...
I am enthusiastic about life and ideas and the people who have them. I am a mental health therapist and I work with people who experience trauma of any type. Learning is one of my passions, especially English history. I also like film noir movies and mystery books with the same type of noir themes. That isn't exactly what makes me a great partner! I care about people and I love laughing. That doesn't make me a great partner either! I'm going to forget that one because I'm sure I am not a great partner for everyone.
I have a good feeling about who I am so I think I'm a secure person. It is almost impossible for me not to tell the truth, my honesty is ridiculous sometimes. I have to be careful that it isn't too much - I'm writing why I wouldn't be a good partner more than anything else.
About the one I'm looking for...
Traits that are important to me are being kind to others, and not rude. The honesty thing is a big one also. I value someone who understands that my job is a part of who I am and I intend to work for as long as possible. I can schedule my own time so it is fine. I also volunteer so sometimes that takes out time. It is good to be with someone who has their own interests as well and passions for whatever is important in their life. The gift of the relationship is sharing these but also knowing that they don't have to be the same and it is still great. I know that I need someone to relax with at the end of the day to bring calm and peace, even just sitting beside each other and knowing that person supports you and you care about what is going on with each other.
I'd just like to add...
It would be wonderful to share the arts, the music and the restaurants with someone that you could also laugh with and dance with and enjoy the life, the relationship, you have together. I can play golf a little so maybe that could be a plus. Actually, it probably wouldn't be a plus that much but I like it.
Q. Do you enjoy cooking?
A. I really enjoy cooking
Q. How patient do you consider yourself?
A. Extremely patient
Q. Are you romantic?
A. Quite romantic
Q. How punctual are you typically?
A. Always on time
Q. Do you enjoy going to the movies?
A. Love it
Q. How much do you enjoy going to live theatre?
A. There's nothing better
Q. How much do you like reading?
A. I love it
My Top Interests:
There is something about the arts and expression that makes me feel alive and invigorated, that people are able to create is exciting.
I like almost any type of music especially in a live venue. Jazz and blues are my favorite. I like music from the 40's as well as Annie Lennox, Gypsy Kings or Los Lobos, Sade so my taste is rather eclectic..
I like restaurants sort of as a cultural expression. I like different types of food. I do cook so I'm interested in how things look and are prepared. I enjoy the variety of the ambiance in dfferent restaurants.
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Q. If two of your closest friends were asked to describe you what do you think they would say?
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Q. Do you have any strange or hidden talents?